When a person wants to get a clearer picture of something that is off in the distance, they might use a pair of binoculars. That way, they are far enough back to get the whole scene, and the magnification helps them to see the details as needed. That's what you have to do with a situation you are finding to be very confusing, dear Aries. You are too close to it. It is a personal matter, and it involves people you know well - but perhaps you don't understand very well. Step back. Look from a distance and focus on specific elements as needed to get the encompassing picture. You will be surprised at how much you can see when you are not so close to it.